As a child, Ina Garten was physically afraid of her father and feared he would harm her.

Ina Garten, the star of 'Barefoot Contessa,' is renowned for her delectable recipes.

As a child, Ina Garten was physically afraid of her father and feared he would harm her.
As a child, Ina Garten was physically afraid of her father and feared he would harm her.

Ina Garten is a fierce individual both in and out of the kitchen, revealing the scars she earned as a child through her experiences.

"Garten stated in an interview with People magazine that she believes she overcame her childhood through sheer determination. According to her, she had two distinct lives: one at home and one at school."

She portrayed her childhood as a "contrast" between positive and negative experiences.

Garten was raised by her parents, Florence and Charles Rosenberg, the latter a surgeon in Stamford, Connecticut. Garten stated that she was scared, fearing that if she ever did something her father didn't approve of, he would pull her hair or kick her.

Ina Garten smiles in a bright blue shirt while holding a spoon up on camera
Ina Garten, known for her popular brand, Barefoot Contessa, is opening up about her dark childhood. (Nathan Congleton/NBCU Photo Bank/NBCUniversal via Getty Images)

She recounted how she believed he would murder her if she disobeyed, causing her to feel physically terrified of him.

Being raised in the '50s, my father was challenging towards my brother and me. It was a different era, not the time of 'helicopter parents' or nurturing children's emotions.

"My father would often say, "Being a parent isn't about being popular," to justify his expectations for us. He believed that we should follow his instructions without question, even if it meant disregarding the child's desires. This approach made it challenging for me, as I value my autonomy and enjoy making my own choices."

Ina Garten speaks on stage at the Webby Awards wearing a black outfit and patterned black scarf
Ina Garten, photographed in May 2024 at the Webby Awards, says she often stayed in her room as a child out of fear. (Dave Kotinsky/Getty Images for The Webby Awards)

"My father used to say, ‘Being a parent isn’t a popularity contest,' which was to justify that what he wanted us to do, we should do. With no questions." — Ina Garten

Garten admits to seeking refuge in her bedroom to avoid danger.

"Even when there's no immediate threat of violence, you're always afraid. As a result, you spent most of your childhood in your room with the door closed for protection, which made your childhood very lonely."

Garten said she didn't have support from her mother either.

Ina Garten in a black sweater and scarf ont he set of "Today"
Ina Garten didn't have a positive relationship with either of her parents growing up. (Nathan Congleton/NBC via Getty Images)

""Looking back at my mom, I believe she did the best she could, given her lack of knowledge about relationships. As I've grown older, I realize the importance of having relationships. My mom didn't want me to cook because she wanted me out of her space. She wanted me away from her, so my room became a safe haven," she shared with People."

Garten, despite being a respected chef, admitted that she was not permitted to cook as a child.

Ina and Jeffrey Garten pose on the carpet in a black dress and black suit at the "Mary Poppins Returns' world premiere
Ina and Jeffrey Garten married in 1968.  (Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty Images for Disney)

She persevered, meeting her husband, Jeffrey Garten, at the age of 15 and establishing her Barefoot Contessa brand in 1978 after purchasing a food store with that name. In 2002, she secured a Food Network show with the same name and is renowned for her recipes.

People often decide to live differently but end up returning to what they're comfortable with. However, I made a conscious effort not to do that. Then, I met Jeffrey, who showed me a completely new way of living.

Garten has been open about reconciling with her father. In June, she posted a picture of her wedding day on Instagram.

"Although my dad and I had a complicated relationship when I was young, we were able to change that once I got married. I'm grateful for the positive and happy times we spent together, and looking back, he had a huge influence on my life. We're very much alike - he loved parties, work, friends, and style. Happy Father's Day, it's a great day to celebrate fathers' present and past."

Ina Garten in a blue shirt standing behind the bar pours a cocktail
Ina Garten says she was able to mend fences with her father. (Lloyd Bishop/NBCU Photo Bank/NBCUniversal via Getty Images)

Garten revealed to People that she reconciled with her father because he apologized in his own way, but her mother did not acknowledge it.

"Be Ready When the Luck Begins" by her will be released on Oct. 1.

by Caroline Thayer

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