15 holiday gifts for dementia patients and caregivers: 'Appropriate for cognitive abilities'

This holiday season, gifts that are popular during the top season may not be the best option for individuals with Alzheimer's disease.

Elizabeth Edgerly, Ph.D., senior director of Community Programs and Services at the Alzheimer’s Association in Chicago, advised that family members and friends may need to adjust their gift-giving strategies when shopping for someone with dementia, as some gifts might not be suitable depending on the person's stage of the disease.

The gifts that once made you a holiday hero might not be suitable now.

"To select a suitable gift, first assess the person's cognitive abilities."

The Alzheimer's Association has published a list of appropriate gifts for individuals at any stage of the disease.

Gift for early-stage Alzheimer's

Jotting things down with colorful markers on dry-erase calendars and white boards is a bright way to keep organized.

Household items can be tracked and organized with the help of label makers, especially for individuals with memory issues.

Engaging your loved one with gift cards for ride-share services or favorite activities is a great way to keep them happy.

GPS trackers, available in the form of watches, bracelets, or key rings, can provide individuals with their independence while ensuring their safety.

Family photos and important dates can be pre-marked on "Memory" calendars.

Gifts for middle to late stages

Your loved one's favorite artists and songs can be included in music playlists.

Loose-fitting garments such as sweat suits, slip-on shirts, night gowns, bathrobes, and lace-free shoes are effortlessly put on, taken off, and washed.

Including framed photos or collages with the names of individuals present can aid in identification.

Gifts such as a soft blanket or handheld massage ball can alleviate stress and anxiety.

Dining accessories designed to adapt to individual needs, such as no-spill cups, plate guards, and utensils with handles, promote independence during meals.

Gifts for engagement

11. A memory phone can store photos with names and contact information.

12. Puzzles and activity books stimulate the brain and promote cognitive sharpness.

Engaging with others and keeping the mind sharp can be achieved through playing card games and board games.

A trip to a movie, concert, sporting event, or museum can keep the recipient engaged and entertained.

Engaging in DIY crafts, such as scrapbooking or ornament painting, promotes at-home involvement.

Things to consider while shopping

Edgerly advises that when shopping for someone with dementia, it's important to consider their preferences and abilities.

"It is important to adapt your gift to where the person is in the disease."

"According to the expert, a dementia diagnosis does not necessarily mean that lifelong passions, such as hobbies and favorite activities, will disappear. Instead, it is crucial to adjust your approach to match the individual's stage of the disease."

"An avid golfer may no longer be able to play, but a golf-themed picture book could still be a suitable option."

For more Health articles, visit planetchronicle.net/health

Edgerly recommended considering "what brings them joy," such as family photos or past pets, for creating a personalized present.

"Make a mug, ornament or special notebook with those photos on the cover," she suggested. "Do they have a favorite song list? Create a playlist for devices like Amazon [Alexa] or Google Home. Choose a gift that aligns with their interests, but is age-appropriate."

Comforting and fun gifts are recommended for individuals with dementia, according to an expert.

Edgerly shared that the best gift he bought for his mom after she developed dementia was a giant box of individually wrapped whoopie pies (a dessert cake).

"The adage that the best things in life are free is true."

"She successfully distributed the items to all her friends and the staff at the assisted living facility. I ensured she had enough to give out. She beamed with joy while distributing them to everyone."

According to Edgerly, one of the best gifts you can give to someone with dementia is your time.

""Spend time with the person doing the things they enjoy, such as playing games, looking at old photos, watching favorite movies, or going out to eat," she advised."

"The saying that the greatest pleasures in life are gratuitous holds true. Devoting time and connecting with someone on a deeper level can be the most valuable present one can give."